I probably responded to what you said too strongly, but it does annoy me when people seem to think that homosexuality is concerned solely with who you shag.
Like Gore Vidal, for example, who famously stated that
"There is no such thing as a homosexual or a heterosexual person. There are only homo- or heterosexual acts. Most people are a mixture of impulses if not practices."
For myself, my homosexuality is entirely about who I shag; if they're of the same sex as me, I'm engaging in homosexual behaviour. When I ride my bicycle, pay my council tax or get my bins emptied, the sex of the person with whom I last had physical intimacy rarely comes into it.
Like Gore Vidal, for example, who famously stated that
"There is no such thing as a homosexual or a heterosexual person. There are only homo- or heterosexual acts. Most people are a mixture of impulses if not practices."
For myself, my homosexuality is entirely about who I shag; if they're of the same sex as me, I'm engaging in homosexual behaviour. When I ride my bicycle, pay my council tax or get my bins emptied, the sex of the person with whom I last had physical intimacy rarely comes into it.