I've yet to meet a very good drummer that isn't at least one or all of the following:
flaky
egotistic
a right-on hippy with double standards (ie: in reality a violent psychopath)
a drug addict
in too many bands
lives miles away from everyone else in the band
looks like a nerd (and not in an ironic way)
Every drummer I've played with has been a combination of the above things... Singers and guitar players are worse tho'...
OTTOMH fave drummers FWIW...
Rock Action
Smokey Johnson
Jody Stephens
Earl Palmer
Clyde Stubblefield
Keith Moon
Zigaboo Modeliste
There are loads and loads more...
Every drummer I've played with has been a combination of the above things... Singers and guitar players are worse tho'...
OTTOMH fave drummers FWIW...
Rock Action
Smokey Johnson
Jody Stephens
Earl Palmer
Clyde Stubblefield
Keith Moon
Zigaboo Modeliste
There are loads and loads more...