Rapha, nice but a bit pricey?

don't pine.

DO NOT pine.

get in there and do your shizzle, accept no substitutes, strike whilst the iron is hot, take no prisoners and seize the day.

that way, if she rejects you (which she probably will unless you HTFU) you can forget about it and move on, to hardcore porn or drink/drugs.

remember, a bird in the hand is worth two up the duff in a bush...or something..

whilst i appreciate your high quality advice (which i wholeheartedly agree with), it's all good, i promise. just a bit of distance :( i think i made it sound worse than it is! tempted to go into details but this neither the place nor the time for such wankery.