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dude, im just about to go out, dont get me started again.
quickly though.
everyone judges others. everyone.fact. what we do, say act, eat drink etc all reflect how we see ourselves and others. its how we decide who we want to interact with on all levels. so yes, in a way it is important that we judge. i dont want to hang out with people who makes racist/ sexist jokes for example. i dont really want to go out with someone who eat endless hamburgers, because to my eyes, it speaks volumes, and i dont really agree with it. but ultimately i hope that i wouldnt be unkind to someone who was fat or had a shit diet etc just because of that fact. i mihgt not want them in my personal intimate sphere but i wouldnt treat them like a cunt. its the difference between judging and prejudice ya know?
hopefully we care about the kids. but the idea of feeling better about ourselves might be a side line benifit. we learn through experience, not always our own... shit, look at that fat kid, my little charlie isnt gonna get that big. get my point.
i never made it to brighton, so bristol city is calling me. enjoy your evo's.