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      I don't care what any of you do, as long as you're good people it stops there... The whole 'And what do you do?' thing makes my skin crawl...
      +1 more.

    But then we have a shared interest in bikes, so we don't really need to make small talk.

    Asking what someone does in a social situation is similar to that 'warm up chat' you have when you arrive at the in laws - 'journey good?' / 'weather bad for time of year'. Neither of you give a fuck about the question or answer but it eases you in to the conversation.

    Somewhat tangenically, it's like taking the piss: you never take the piss out of someone you really dislike - these are the people that you are most careful to be polite around. (I'm not sure that stretches to internet forums tho ;-))

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