How to deal with a copper?

if he has a front yard, pour bleach on his gras and spell out "child molester"

dunno if thats a joke. but that shit aint funny.

what do you want to do about it? i dont know if that matters... what does your lady want to do about it? if she wants it left, then leave it. if not, then discuss it with her, not us lot. she is the one to be listened to on something like this. it seems to me that women dont trust men, and often with good reason. be a good man that can be trusted, and don't go all sneaky revenge cos it might not get the good reaction you wanted when she finds out. basically, treat her right and show that you aren't the same as the rest. ( the rest in this case being the ones referred to in the oft said phrase "all guys are the same".. we know it aint true, show it aint true).