I'm me, and I don't follow crowds, fashion, or if I have an alternative view, I sometimes won't even follow good sense. I follow my own mind. I may never lose weight. I may never improve in the ways I want to, but I will do it my way.
courant, I do appreciate your time, and your superbly informative answer. I know it will be of help to not just myself (in parts), but others also.