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  • and there you go.I'm going to give you the benefit of the doubt and answer your question. what you do with the answer is up to you, but be in no doubt that I will not read or respond to any response you post:

    Start the quiz:

    1. do you find yourself getting regularly flamed on forums?
      Yes: go to question 2.
      No: go to question 8.

    2. Does this type of response appear to be limited to you: are you being singled out?
      Yes: go to question 3.
      No: go to question 8.

    3. Do you think that it's possible that there is something that you do that causes this response?
      Yes: go to question 4.
      No: go to question 8.

    4. do you know what this is?
      Yes: go to question 7
      No: go to question 5.

    5. If you've concluded that you write (apparently innocent, but) provocative posts in order to raise aspects of your life that haven't gone well, in order to cause people to be hostile to you, top marks. You're halfway there.

    Do you know why you do this?
    Yes: go to question 7.
    No: go to question 6.

    1. I recommend a book by oliver james, called "they fuck you up". It's about how the lack of nurture in a family unit causes children to grow up seeking relationships that mimic their early environment, because these are the relationships that they feel safe in. When they can't always find them, they bend the circumstances or project on to the people they're interacting with in order to create these situations.

    2. Do you know that you can change how you behave, by bringing your subconscious mind in to your conscious self?

    3. LFGSS or any other forum is not the place to learn these skills from. It may be the place to practice when you work out why this is happening, but in the interim you should consider other avenues of social interaction. In all genuineness, can I suggest contacting samaritans, or finding a therapist, as you can improve yourself and get over the emotional scarring that your posts clearly indicate that you've suffered.

    Fred.

    almost amusing but a an overused script I'm afraid.

    and remember jesus christ was also very misunderstood.

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