Calling bikes "she"

If I can't apologise and you're gonna keep nitpicking everything I say then clearly you're no better than me. I did not put it on the same level I got told I was "invoking the persecution of trans people" which I would never aim to do. Therefore I felt the need to defend the fact that I have no problem with how people present themselves as it doesn't affect me. I'm trying to give an apology and you still want me to just say I'm insensitive. In the name of harm reduction you're no good at explaining to people and may be the very reason some people are against it. I like to have a healthy conversation that is constructive so I can take something away from it. Hence why I'm not trying to insult anyone, while you're trying to say I have a "crassly stupid insensitivity". I hope everyone has a great night and once again apologies for any wrongdoings or things I have said.