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Oh mate I’m only just catching up on this. It can be very hard to realise that putting your own self care in a relationship first is what’s needed, it’s an incredibly difficult step to take but it sounds like your getting onto a better path.
Definitely get that Banjo out while you’re recovering! I’ve owned a guitar for at least 20 odd years, I’m still shit but it’s great to just disappear into for an evening :)
I fucking LOVE lufguss!! I was really just looking to answer @andyp and explain the lack of recent updates, but as always I am just blown away by the kindness and support of this community! I don’t quite know how to express it, but thank you so much to all of you.
Surgery went well today, woke up in agony and feels like they chucked every painkiller they could at it. Between that and a few position adjustments it is feeling much better now (Although there will be a few horses in a field somewhere in a lot of pain).
No traction cast either as it’s all pins and screws so I’m starting to try and bend my knee and move my foot in preparation for the physio trying to get me up on a zimmer or crutches tomorrow.🩼