@andyp Hey Andy, not great unfortunately. I hadn’t been happy in the relationship for a while and had failed pretty miserably at ever communicating it, instead choosing just to distract myself with the build and work until I’d just let it go too far.. I’m staying in Kirkwall just now while we work out what to do with the house and whether one of us can afford to manage it on our own (I really don’t want to sell it to anyone else!).
Then, I started to try a bit of self care going into the new year, did some yoga Sunday and Monday and then because I was in Kirkwall I decided I’d treat myself to a cycle out to the beach afterwards, hit some black ice coming round a corner and broke my femur in two places right at the hip.. helicoptered down to Aberdeen a couple days ago and I’m just waiting to go into surgery for some pins and screws.. hoping 2023 improves soon haha 🤞
Fucking hell! Really sorry to hear all this and feel sorry for asking now. I hope the operation goes as planned and wish you a speedy physical recovery. I also hope one or both of you are able to live in the house.
@andyp Hey Andy, not great unfortunately. I hadn’t been happy in the relationship for a while and had failed pretty miserably at ever communicating it, instead choosing just to distract myself with the build and work until I’d just let it go too far.. I’m staying in Kirkwall just now while we work out what to do with the house and whether one of us can afford to manage it on our own (I really don’t want to sell it to anyone else!).
Then, I started to try a bit of self care going into the new year, did some yoga Sunday and Monday and then because I was in Kirkwall I decided I’d treat myself to a cycle out to the beach afterwards, hit some black ice coming round a corner and broke my femur in two places right at the hip.. helicoptered down to Aberdeen a couple days ago and I’m just waiting to go into surgery for some pins and screws.. hoping 2023 improves soon haha 🤞