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  • What are you on about?

    I think you have revealed your true colours a year ago on this thread

    I like the vibe here, but I have noticed that I'm too prickly for it. I need to calm down and stop getting angry. Maybe I've spent too long on forums which have loud arseholes. Maybe I've become one myself.

    I used to behave like you, seeking to take offence, playing the victim whilst being the antagonist and blaming all around me. I would also take a foolish pride winding people up and was rather toxic. Thankfully some people called me out on this and on one day I agreed I needed to make some wholesale changes. I am not perfect and still fuck up and occasionally revert to old behaviours but it did take time and effort to change and moderate my behaviour. One great piece of advice I got was “if you encounter one cunt in a day they probably are one, if you encounter two cunts in a day check yourself, if you encounter more than three cunts in a day then James you are probably the cunt”.

    I recognise myself in you and have clearly responded in kind to your posting, but as a random person on the internet it comes across you are not happy, life doesn’t have to be all a fight and a struggle.

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