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Tl,dr - why on earth is your friend fat when they could be thin if they tried harder?
Society assuming thin is the norm and that if someone exists in a bigger/fat body they do so because of a lack of will power, lack of discipline, and lazyness and that thin people are determined, disciplined and hard working makes no sense.
Body size is just body size - it tells you nothing about a person's health status, work ethic, discipline, how much exercise they do, etc.
Why does exercise have to result in weight loss, can't we just enjoy it rather than doing it to put ourselves in to a calorie defecit?
Yet still...