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He didn't label you a racist, but I can understand why you would feel uncomfortable if you felt he did. Rather than lashing out and holding a grudge, maybe you could have responded along these lines:
'i don't believe I am a racist, and I'm mortified that anyone else would think i am one. Can you let me know why you thought that?'
You might have learned something. You have said elsewhere that you like to analyse and understand things.
So he can, probably deliberately, choose to misinterpret my posts and label me a racist, and get away with it because of goodwiil. Who from? The people who backed him up, one of whom was you. Are you another golf club twat? This thread is a nest of them. You should all fuck off to Mumsnet.