Off topic but we had a really bad case of sexual harassment at work blow up just before Christmas.
My best coworker ( very attractive Asian lady) made a well documented complaint about a creepy asshole who had been sending texts and emails for months.
She was really upset and most of the “old boys” just laughed at her. The “she’s just a bitch who can’t take a joke” bullshit.
Hambini is one of those kind of guys.
It doesn’t matter if he thinks it’s funny, what matters is the effect on his target. If he doesn’t give a shit about his target’s feeling he is a POS and so is anyone who supports him.
I couldn't work with people like that. Might not be the most appropriate thing for you (given I know little about your work relationships) but that needs calling out. I've had to so it once or twice in workplaces as it's hard to hear.
Off topic but we had a really bad case of sexual harassment at work blow up just before Christmas.
My best coworker ( very attractive Asian lady) made a well documented complaint about a creepy asshole who had been sending texts and emails for months.
She was really upset and most of the “old boys” just laughed at her. The “she’s just a bitch who can’t take a joke” bullshit.
Hambini is one of those kind of guys.
It doesn’t matter if he thinks it’s funny, what matters is the effect on his target. If he doesn’t give a shit about his target’s feeling he is a POS and so is anyone who supports him.