Can she not play in the garden while you work*? Or is it not safe enough there yet?
What I used to struggle with was fitting things in without then leaving my OH to pick up the childcare, or leaving them alone in the evenings. Seem to get guilt from both sides. A 2nd child really helps with this as all your free time is removed, so you just have to watch things fall apart while your TDL grows.
I feel for you though. That retraining wall will be hard to segment into lots of short jobs like you can do with painting or just clearing the garden.
Can she not play in the garden while you work*? Or is it not safe enough there yet?
What I used to struggle with was fitting things in without then leaving my OH to pick up the childcare, or leaving them alone in the evenings. Seem to get guilt from both sides. A 2nd child really helps with this as all your free time is removed, so you just have to watch things fall apart while your TDL grows.
I feel for you though. That retraining wall will be hard to segment into lots of short jobs like you can do with painting or just clearing the garden.
*obviously not the mixing concrete bit