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That's what I was thinking.
I'm short legged and long torso and arms for my height so despite being nearly 6"2 I ride a 56cm with not a huge amount of seatpost but a 120mm stem.
I obviously wouldn't replicate the position with a 140mm but would need longish to not be cramped.
I think the large with a 90 or 100mm stem might be fine. I don't want it to feel tall underneath me either though
I have a Medium (usually ride 55 /56 road bikes with long stems) and wish I got a Large. I'm more comfortable now I use it in dad mode but the long stem gets in the way of the cargo area, which can be an issue.