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Chalfie
@hoefla
Wut. I have to squint really hard to see this framing.
It's more like - for people that already know you, you say "I know you always thought I was X but actually I'm Y" and they say "Oh shit, wow that must have been really fucking hard to deal with, ok I'll try and I might fuck it up sometimes until I get used to it but I'll get there." And everyone else who hasn't met you yet is just like "Hey, Y person. How you doing.". The first group of people isn't very big. "Society" falls into the second group, mostly.
I mean that would be nice.
Why are you trying to convince her of this?
Your whole setup is weird.