Best place to find anything like that is the hafele website but it does tend to be spendy.
You can try iron mongery direct they have a lot of friction stays that may do but it sounds like you want some kind of damped mechanism.
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Best place to find anything like that is the hafele website but it does tend to be spendy.
You can try iron mongery direct they have a lot of friction stays that may do but it sounds like you want some kind of damped mechanism.