Otoh @rogan if you don't wear suits very often (or are super rich) then it's better to spend your wedding budget on alcohol and no one will notice what you're wearing.
yeah, i mean, we supply our own booze so there will be certainty no shortage of that. but i have absolutely no suitable footwear, and my partner will appreciate wearing something nice so that’s worth it to me
Otoh @rogan if you don't wear suits very often (or are super rich) then it's better to spend your wedding budget on alcohol and no one will notice what you're wearing.