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  • Thank you but no need as I think it is going to drag on. GF jus wants to finish the kitchen even if it not what she wants. I'm the get what you want, even tho we will have to wait a bit.

  • I’m sure you’ve been through this with her, and you already know it, but getting things right now (with a four week delay) will negate the niggling feeling of having compromised, a feeling that’ll be there every day for the next four years.

    Of course, this logic only works if she’s sensitive to the details. Lots of people just don’t care.

  • Lots of people just don’t care.

    I really admire and envy this kind of people from time to time. I feel my life would be much simpler and happier if I was better at don’t care.
    Generally speaking. Not a comment on lynx’s situation.

  • She is sensitive to the details, but at the mo the major thing is the flat filled with kitchen stuff and flooring stuff, cats not happy and cousin arriving on thursday. The kitchen thing has been going on for 18 months with lots and lots indecision and fck ups.

    @drøn I know what you mean. Many times I wish I was like that.

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