I would never recommend it! And I'm not playing devil's advocate. Clearly lots of people do it and a scan of the sour faces on this commuter train suggest that lots of people regret it.
Sorry to hear your dad was miserable in work and commute and was therefore distant. Sounds like you have arranged your life in a way that suits you perfectly and for that you should be applauded and not challenged. But not everyone can manage this, so they/we compromise. That's all I meant to say.
But not everyone can manage this, so they/we compromise
I getchu, but I feel people mostly comprimise the wrong way. There's a whole country of societal issues and financial weirdness at blame for this though.
I would never recommend it! And I'm not playing devil's advocate. Clearly lots of people do it and a scan of the sour faces on this commuter train suggest that lots of people regret it.
Sorry to hear your dad was miserable in work and commute and was therefore distant. Sounds like you have arranged your life in a way that suits you perfectly and for that you should be applauded and not challenged. But not everyone can manage this, so they/we compromise. That's all I meant to say.