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  • Not really. She could have used our surveyor (at 1/4 the cost) and had the same reassurances and legals.

    But not when

    she "didn't trust" ours

    I think you're right to feel a bit put out.
    Big picture:
    you're going to be doing some work that will Affect your local environment
    they are concerned
    they want an independent survey done
    this adds £2k on to your bill (unexpected, but I think you can accommodate it ?)
    you don't like this because if (and when) the situation was reversed you would (and have) signed the cheapest option to help out with neighbourly relations
    this work will cost xk (or x/2 mink coats)
    this work will add xk value to your house
    this work will add unquantifiable value to your house when you live in it (unless you measure it using some sort of qualitative index of "positive feels" compared to before the side return)
    you are looking to hammer this person because they are costing you
    you want to fire frozen sausages at them because that's the current way of displaying displeasure with people on this place

    Personally?
    I'd sigh and not call them a prick.

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