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If you really care about the cats:
1) abduct cats
2) get them sorted properly at the vets, you will have to pay, deal with it
3) find people who are not properly insane to house cats
4) stop freaking the people on the Cat thread out FFS
Howard-
Boy cat was neutered, and girlie was quite angry about it. Even tho he was humping his sister and his sister was not happy about it and was running scared and hiding all the time. That could not go on. I took the only choice I could think of and that was get him done.
The girl cat hasn't been done and girlfriend has mentioned that she thinks the girl cat would be happier if she had a few kittens. I brought this up with the vet who was doing boy cats neutering. He told her that the idea of cats having kittens is good for the cat is an old wifes tail and that she is still a kitten herself and it was a bit cruel to do that to the kitten. I agree with this. There have been verbal threats issued if I get the girl cat neutered. But it has been booked. The kitten may escape for a bit and be operated on then returned using they thought she was a stray hence the hysterectomy. Healed and cone less.
lynx
We sort of live together long story. I get the feeling that she sees the cats as things. She has only had one cat before and it did not have a nice end. Her brother did care that cat had eaten and drank for 4 days, then went on holiday. The girlie turned up when he was going on holiday and saw the cat was ill took to the vet. Vet said cat almost dead and in lots of pain. Brother said to keep cat alive till he finished his hols as he didn't want to spoil his holiday. I don't speak to the brother or acknowledge him if he is in the same room.
The talk of putting them down was talk, the boy cat being so ill again made me really upset. The put them out of their suffering sort of thing. It upset me to think of the cats in pain or stressed. Part of the reason I stick around.