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Hopefully, but the daily screaming and punching the cat flap is starting to get to me. Also, I know Patch is not cats cat... I might have said it here before, we used to have a bunch of cats hanging out in our gardens, but since her arrival... within months... there was only 1 cat left - Patch...
And to be honest, upstairs cat has been here for a good few weeks now and I have seen them co-existing in the general garden bits, but what Patch will not have and quite rightly so, is that kitty coming all the way to stick his face to the cat flap.
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ExTra
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It might take a while for Patch to get used to the cat and then he/she might not be that bothered about the cats presence and you can just let it do its thing. Failing that, they'll brawl it out and avoid each other. I have always found its best to let them sort it out themselves. And, they will.
We had a cat that started coming in through the bathroom window in a flat years back. I tried everything to get rid of her. Turns out my cat really liked it and they just chilled together for a bit in the flat or in the garden and the other cat would go home when it felt like it. We never fed it or did anything to get to to stay, it just did.