You're going to struggle to find anywhere that doesn't do all these checks nowadays, it's not really optional.
At my place (not a bank but still finance related) the Anti-money laundering and know your client department is about 6 times bigger than ten years ago due to all the extra rules.
I have a mortgage with another bank so will probably just move there since they already know shit about me. Anything else they ask that I deem too intrusive I will 'be creative' about.
You're going to struggle to find anywhere that doesn't do all these checks nowadays, it's not really optional.
At my place (not a bank but still finance related) the Anti-money laundering and know your client department is about 6 times bigger than ten years ago due to all the extra rules.