Ours, when getting ill (or just very old) were not demanding attention, rather the opposite - guess cats indeed are different when it comes to this.
When it was time they went away without "saying goodbye" to find a quiet spot usually..
Not yet, but it'll be the next step if things get worse. She doesn't seem unhappy or in pain, so see no strong need - yet. Problem will be convincing gf to go - she's had the cat for 19yrs and it'll be really hard to say goodbye.
Did you go to the vet with her to check her out?
Ours, when getting ill (or just very old) were not demanding attention, rather the opposite - guess cats indeed are different when it comes to this.
When it was time they went away without "saying goodbye" to find a quiet spot usually..