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I don't follow your logic.
Of course some victims don't want anything to do with sex for a very long time. But not all, and the length of time isn't some kind of indicator the 'truth' of being raped.
I'm glad your friend told you about it, talking about it isn't as common as it happens. If you knew more people's stories you might find the aftermath varies. I'm not being fucking patronising. People vary.
Patronising cunt. An ex of mine was raped some years before we met and I remember her telling me about it in depth. He was a university 'friend', she told me about the friendship they had beforehand, the actual event and the aftermath...don't you dare call me out in this you arsehole cunt