I agree that the EU needs reform, and hopefully this referendum might effect that. But if we leave we have no influence whatsoever and will likely have to accept EU diktats as part of our trade agreement with them, cf Norway.
If we leave it won't happen tomorrow. There will be 10 years of glacial pace reform/discussion before and then nobody will even notice on the day it happens.
It's perfectly possible to do things in a grown-up way. Look at China's 50 year integration plan for HK.
I agree that the EU needs reform, and hopefully this referendum might effect that. But if we leave we have no influence whatsoever and will likely have to accept EU diktats as part of our trade agreement with them, cf Norway.