• Debate has ended with me agreeing to calm down a bit, on the proviso that next time I tell her about a near miss on the roads she doesn't a) assume initially that I was in the wrong because 'bloody cyclists' and b) she doesn't spend the conversation coming up with reasons the driver might have had for endangering me ("maybe he was late/his satnav didn't tell him to go left until the last second/he couldn't get into the left hand lane earlier").

    She acknowledged that the driver was stupid - but I don't think we agree on the nature of the link between the terms 'careless driving' and 'accident'. Put it this way - if she was on a jury for a careless driving case, there'd be an element of "there but for the grace of god" in her reasoning.

    Can you not report it to the police it should be on CCTV and they will be able to get all the details.

    Not a bad shout - I'll definitely think about it. Not convinced anything would come of it though.

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