I'd agree with you for the differences in speeds on the commute, but on the open road that's simply nonsense. I get a 1-2kph ave speed difference between two different carbon bikes, with a 1kg ish weight difference - main difference between them being the winter and summer tyres, I guess. So the difference between a massive heavy steel beast and a carbon speedy will be huge, especially when the road goes uphill.
I ride with my housemate quite a lot. He used to exclusively ride his Dawes Galaxy with 32c Marathon Plus tyres. I'd basically be on the front the whole ride. Then he went out and got a carbon fancy and fuck me, I could hardly keep up. Massive difference in top speed and acceleration.
I'd agree with you for the differences in speeds on the commute, but on the open road that's simply nonsense. I get a 1-2kph ave speed difference between two different carbon bikes, with a 1kg ish weight difference - main difference between them being the winter and summer tyres, I guess. So the difference between a massive heavy steel beast and a carbon speedy will be huge, especially when the road goes uphill.