Try the Craft lobsters, honestly - they were game-changers for me.
Bought a pair of those last year (on your indirect recommendation, iirc). They were game-stay-the-samers for me, but i am awaiting a delivery of the next two sizes up. They might work better.
They do need to be large enough so that your fingers don't press on the fabric constantly - i.e. your fingertips pressing on the ends of the dual-fingers, or the cold will transmit straight across.
Try the Craft lobsters, honestly - they were game-changers for me.