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Absolutely, and I'm not disputing that at all.
But when we start blaming them for that, it introduces an element of victimisation into the us and them relationship that we have. I don't think the blame is wholly justified in the manner that it is most frequently presented and the ensuing victimisation is toxic to our relationship. As the vulnerable party in this relationship, we don't benefit from this toxicity, quite the opposite.
But, aren't they the more dangerous entity on the road? Regardless of the decision they have or have not made, they're still at the controls of a 1+tonne of metal with the potential to seriously injury/kill.