Back the original point, I would suggest cycle training because it will help your girlfriend to hear how to do cycling from someone who's been hired to tell people about it... Lends an air of truth to it, and when the instructor says cycling is safe it will sound a lot saner than coming from you.
Also 15 miles is a long way for someone who doesn't cycle... 3 miles is probably what most normal people would consider a safe to cycle distance... random numbers from my head, but you need to get away from what you think and try to realise what she is thinking...
As for slain and boffers, sounds a lot like Post traumatic stress syndrome or what ever it's called. Seriously, lots of little events that build up stress levels till you can't do the thing...
Back the original point, I would suggest cycle training because it will help your girlfriend to hear how to do cycling from someone who's been hired to tell people about it... Lends an air of truth to it, and when the instructor says cycling is safe it will sound a lot saner than coming from you.
Also 15 miles is a long way for someone who doesn't cycle... 3 miles is probably what most normal people would consider a safe to cycle distance... random numbers from my head, but you need to get away from what you think and try to realise what she is thinking...
As for slain and boffers, sounds a lot like Post traumatic stress syndrome or what ever it's called. Seriously, lots of little events that build up stress levels till you can't do the thing...