I expect I'm wrong because I'm too stupid to understand your very clearly-expressed advice.
So perhaps you're suggesting that dammit sit down with James and do a little therapy session with him, where they can decide, in an adult manner, how James would like to proceed with his life from here forward? Perhaps you could be on hand to translate between the two of them, Doctor Cat Whisperer?
I expect I'm wrong because I'm too stupid to understand your very clearly-expressed advice.
So perhaps you're suggesting that dammit sit down with James and do a little therapy session with him, where they can decide, in an adult manner, how James would like to proceed with his life from here forward? Perhaps you could be on hand to translate between the two of them, Doctor Cat Whisperer?