Wheelbuilding / Wheel Building / Wheel build help

Think I'd like to try something like Aero Comps on the loaded wheel side and Aerolites on the other to even the tension, so they build up stiffer than just Aerolites both sides maybe...?

Tension is load, whether it is transmitted via a big or a tiny spoke is the same... or is it too early in the morning to compute? I certainly never noticed big differences in tensions when I built wheels with chunky spokes on the DS and tiny on the NDS.