Which Saddle?

As much as I wished that the search for perfect saddle is over. Romin dissapointed me, but I think that is just me. the 143mm is tad bit too wide and rubs my inner legs, but Selle Italia Flite is 143mm and I get on with it quite well. And Romin Evo Expert is too hard for me without padded shorts and that's how I mostly ride my bike. Sitbones feel like sandpaper goes over them... Currently will use Flite for a while, but i still want something slimmer for Dosnoventa. Ideas?

Tried the sell italia flite max? This is the comfiest saddle, ever IMO...(been through so many following the path described by noisier) although, its not the best looker...and for some could almost be too soft.