One of the few hangovers from my ethnic background that I think is actually a good thing and should be copied into western culture is the basic assumption that if you get old and useless your kids/family take you in and look after you no questions asked as a matter of course.
I hate seeing older patients on the wards go months without a visit/concern and then you ask and find they've got umpteen relatives who live near enough but are just wrapped up in their own stupid lives and nuclear families...
One of the few hangovers from my ethnic background that I think is actually a good thing and should be copied into western culture is the basic assumption that if you get old and useless your kids/family take you in and look after you no questions asked as a matter of course.
I hate seeing older patients on the wards go months without a visit/concern and then you ask and find they've got umpteen relatives who live near enough but are just wrapped up in their own stupid lives and nuclear families...